quandary
/ˈkwɔn.də.ɹi/noun
A situation in which you cannot decide what to do; a state of confusion or doubt.
Example sentences
- “She was in a quandary over whether to accept the job offer or stay near her family.”
- “Choosing between two great job offers put him in a real quandary.”
You are 'in a quandary'. Close to 'dilemma', but a dilemma strictly involves exactly two unwelcome options.